Cheating? What does it do for you? What’s the point? Your with someone, someone you started dating or seeing for a reason. Because you like that person, but you get to a point where you lose interest, or get so mad you cheat on that person. Or you may just have that impulse of wanting to do it.
Have you been cheated on? Have you been in a relationship and the person you cared about just does an unthinkable thing like cheat on you. How did you feel? Did you give that person another chance? Trust that person again? Or let them go? I have been through both of these situations. I have been cheated on, and I have cheated. It honestly hurt both ways.
I think guys and girls cheat in completely different ways. And reasons, guys tend to cheat because of boredom, not being interested in that girl anymore. And I think women cheat because of anger or out of spite. But I know guys sometimes do the same thing. But for the most part it’s really cut and dry.
I cheated on my ex because I was pissed, I was unhappy. We always fought, never got along. And I absolutely hated her with everything in me. Now, I felt bad in a way that I cheated just because I wasn’t man enough to break it off. I chose to be a low kind of guy and do something that bad. I mean I didn’t really give a shit at the time.
She cheated on me also, slept with a couple guys. And I don’t know why but I cared. I was hurt at the time. Now I have grown up significantly and I always think about why guys and girls cheat. If you think or know that you will lose attraction, or be unhappy. Don’t be with that person. It’s not hard, it’s not rocket science. A lot of people can’t break it off with the person they are cheating on.
And shame on those guys, or girls that take back the person that cheated on them. Let me finish, I know in some situations that person can be truly honest and be apologetic. And you can forgive them, and move on the way you want it too. But the girls that take back the guys that constantly cheat and hurt them is ridiculous, I want to say that you deserve it, but I’m not trying to be an ass about it.
I’m going to leave it like this, no one likes to be cheated on. No one likes to see the person they care about rip their heart out of their chest. No one wants to feel that pain. So just be a man or a grown women and break it off. It’s not that hard. And if you find it a little difficult to break it off, then don’t do it. Work out your problems, or issues. Let’s all be adults. Grow Up People!!
